“Honor your mother and your FATHER, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you.” Exodus 20:12
The fifth commandment is a tough one. Teaching your children to honor their parents is truly a lifelong commitment. It is all about obedience. Obedience to the Lord, really. That is what I struggle with…obeying the Lord. My Father in heaven. The perfect father.
It came upon me the other morning; how very disobedient to the Lord I am…can be. I don’t always listen when He speaks. I ignore His calls. I am distracted when He asks me to do something. I am very disobedient.
Recently, two things happened within minutes of each other. As a typical child, I chose how I was going to obey. I was ‘semi-obedient’ (is that even allowed? I think not!!) The Lord kept nudging me to pray for someone. Someone who I have a difficult time with, I don’t understand their blatant disregard for the Lord and I see a lot of who I was, before Christ, in them. The Lord kept telling me to ‘lay hands’ on this person…pray for them. But I didn’t. I chose to pray for them silently to myself, never laying a finger on the one God was asking me to love for Him. I choose to disobey. The second-within moments the Lord filled me with His Spirit. I could feel a burning inside of me. A complete wash of the Holy Spirit urging me to deliver a word to our congregation. This is a common occurrence at my church, not for me, but for others. People feel the pull of the Lord leading them to the Word, leading them to the altar. I was, at first, really ready to rebel. I turned to Rick and told him what was going on and he encouraged me to go…so I did. I did it with a happy obedient heart.
That is just an example of my choosing to be obedient. I do it daily. The Lord reminds me of the way I should go and I, very willfully, go in the other direction. This is a common occurrence. He reminds me of this often…how I go my way and not His.
It’s funny how I can justify my own disobedience, but get frustrated when my kids chose to disobey. How dare they??? How do they know to do this? Oh, yea, right…it’s me; I am their (not so shining) example. They are unwittingly following in my footsteps. Time to pull in the reigns and make an effort to be the most obedient daughter I can be to my Father, so that my little lambs will desire to obey their parents. Surprisingly, they are joyfully obedient to the Lord…Thank God!
A friend recently shared with me the secret to her parenting…she doesn’t really know that she shared this, but I gleaned a lot of hope from what she said. As we were gathering our children up at a playdate she said to her son, “You have choices, you can chose to obey or you can chose to disobey, I hope you chose to obey.” In that very instant it occurred to me, I have the same choices. I need to press into the goodness of the Lord; His perfect will for my life. I need to listen and obey.
Father God,
Your mercies are new each morning. You know every step I am to take. You direct my path and yet I stray. Thank you for forgiving me. Help me to honor my Father. In Jesus’ name, Amen.